Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Controversial Doll Lets Little Girls Pretend to Breast-Feed - Children's Health - FOXNews.com

Controversial Doll Lets Little Girls Pretend to Breast-Feed - Children's Health - FOXNews.com
 A controversial new doll is leaving some parents wishing for the good old Cabbage Patch days.


A Spanish toymaker known as Berjuan has developed a breast-feeding doll that comes with a special halter top its young "mothers" wear as they pretend to breast-feed their "babies." The halter top has daisies that cover the little girls’ nipples and come undone just as easily as the flaps of a nursing bra would.
The doll — called Bebe Gloton, which translates as “gluttonous baby” — makes sucking noises as it "feeds."
Like many other dolls, Bebe Gloton can cry, signaling she wants more milk.
Although many health care providers promote the benefits of breast-feeding, parents around the world have criticized Berjuan, saying the idea of breast-feeding is too grown-up for young children -- and may even promote early pregnancy.
"That's not cool," Lori Reynolds, of El Paso, Texas, told KFOXTV.com. "No, I would never get that for my child."
But other moms said they support the product.
"I think that it’s great that people want to have a doll that promotes breast-feeding,” said Rose Haluschak, also of El Paso. “Most dolls that are purchased come with a bottle. That is the norm in society, an artificial way to feed your baby.”
Dr. Manny Alvarez, managing health editor of FOXNews.com, said although he supports the idea of breast-feeding, he sees how his own daughter plays with dolls and wonders if Bebe Gloton might speed up maternal urges in the little girls who play it.
“Pregnancy has to entail maturity and understanding,” Alvarez said. “It’s like introducing sex education in first grade instead of seventh or eighth grade. Or, it could inadvertently lead little girls to become traumatized. You never know the effects this could have until she’s older.”
Alvarez said breast-feeding reduces childhood infections, strengthens maternal bonding and increases the child’s immune system. But introducing breast-feeding to girls young enough to play with dolls seems inappropriate, he said.
“What’s next?” wrote Eric Ruhalter, a parenting columnist for New Jersey’s Star Ledger. “Bebe Sot — the doll who has a problem with a different kind of bottle, and loses his family, job and feelings of self-worth? Bebe Limp — the male doll who experiences erectile dysfunction? Bebe Cell Mate — a weak, unimposing doll that experiences all the indignation and humiliation of life in prison?
"Toy themes should be age appropriate. I think so anyway.”

Friday, August 26, 2011

Second U/S

11w2d 8/24/11

We saw s/he moving around and heard the heart beat again.

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Dear Non-Pregnant Person

Dear Non-Pregnant Person, I hope you find these guidelines helpful in your interactions with pregnant women as failing to follow them may result in serious physical harm. If you are thinking, surely she doesn't mean me- then you should probably read this twice:

1) The appropriate response to a couple telling you they are having a baby is 'Congratulations!' with enthusiasm. Any other response makes you an a$$.

2) Through the wonders of science, we now know that babies are made ONLY by the mother and father- not grandparents. Unless the baby is in your uterus or you are the man that helped put it there, you may not ever use the phrase 'my baby'.

3) On the same note, unless you made the baby as defined in #2, the pregnancy, birth and raising of the child are not about you. You do not have input. No one wants to hear your opinion unless they ask for it.

4) The body of a pregnant women should be treated the same as any other body. You would not randomly touch someone's stomach if they were not pregnant, nor would you inquire into the condition of their uterus, cervix or how they plan to use their breasts. Pregnancy does not remove all traces of privacy from a woman.

5) Likewise, no woman wants to hear comments on her weight- ever. A pregnant woman does not find it flattering that you think she is about is pop, must be having twins, looks swollen or has gained weight in her face. Telling her she looks too small only makes her worry that she is somehow starving her baby. Making such comments invite her to critique your physical appearance and you may not act offended. The only acceptable comment on appearance is 'You look fabulous!'.

6) By the time we are 20-30 years old, most of us have picked up on the fact that the summer is hot. We are hot every summer when we are not pregnant. We don't need you to point out that we will be miserably hot before the baby comes.

7) There is a reason that tickets to L&D are not yet sold on Ticket master. Childbirth is actually not a public event. It may sound crazy, but some women really do not relish the idea of their mother, MIL or a host of other family members seeing their bare butt and genitals. Also, some people simply feel like the birth of their child is a private and emotional moment to be shared only by the parents.

8) Like everything else is life, unless you receive an invitation, you are NOT invited. This includes doctor appointments, ultrasounds, labor, delivery, the hospital and the parents' home. You do not decide if you will be there for the birth or if you will move in with the new parents to 'help out'. If your assistance is desired, rest assured that you will be asked for it.

9) If you are asked to help after the birth, this means you should clean up the house, help with cooking meals, and generally stay out of the way. Holding the baby more than the parents, interfering with breastfeeding and sleeping schedules and making a woman who is still leaking fluid from multiple locations lift a finger in housework is not helping.

10) The only people entitled to time with the baby are the parents. Whether they choose to have you at the hospital for the birth or ask for you to wait three weeks to visit, appreciate that you are being given the privilege of seeing their child. ***Complaining or showing disappointment only encourages the parents to include you less.***

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Overwhelmed

I have gotten really bad with keeping up with this blog. It's like I get pregnant and then **poof** I can't keep up with anything. It's very frustrating. I've gotten to the point where I don't even want to look at the computer anymore. Maybe after the wedding this Saturday my brain will clear up. HA! I wouldn't count on it. This past weekend we didn't have the kids. On Saturday Mike took me to the CT Science Center. We had a good time. The food sucked by the 3-D movie was cool. I fell asleep at the end LOL. After we went to check out what was going on right outside. Turns out it was a Jamiacan Food Festival. We walked through it anyway and I got a slushi! On the way home we stopped at Target & Dollar Tree to get things we needed for the wedding. And then to BJ's to order the cakes! Which we have sine cancelled because Alyson wants to make the cake. When we got home we went to play mini golf with Kim and Bill. I came in last. Shocker! Then we went and had yummy ice cream. We ended up getting dinner and bringing it back to their house. But by the time we were done for the day I was ready for B-E-D! Sunday I didn't move. I didn't feel well and started with a headache. And by the time I woke up Monday it was a full blown migraine! Which sucks because I can't take anything for it, just ride it out. Well, the ride didn't end until Tuesday night. So I didn't leave the couch for 2 days. And today I'm back at work and just don't feel good. My dad and Jean are here from FL for the wedding so tonight Mike and I will meet them for dinner. Then I'm going to B-E-D!

Friday, August 5, 2011

Thursday, August 4, 2011

5 Foods

5. Peanut Butter (I can't eat it since I've been pregnant, makes me sick)
4. McDonald's Double Cheeseburgers (I've been craving them)
3. Pizza!
2. Pickles
1. Cheese :)

6 Places

6. My home (right now that's where I wish I was)
5. NY (want to see a Yankee Game)
4. CO (where my brother's area, wish they weren't so far away)
3. Las Vegas (would love to get to take Mike)
2. Atlantic City (love it there)
1. Foxwoods (BINGO!)

7 Wants

7. I want to stop feeling sick and tired all the time.
6. I want to get married already!
5. I want a bigger SUV but not a bigger gas bill.
4. I want to feel like I can trust people enough to get close.
3. I want money to buy what we need for the baby.
2. I want Boomer to live forever.
1. I want to not always be struggling.

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

1st Ultrasound!

Yesterday I had my first ultra sound. Unfortunately Mike wasn't able to be there. I measured 8 weeks and 1 day. That's 5 days off from the original estimate. But I had an IUD before so it's about right. So as of right now he/she is due 3/12/12! I was able to see and hear the heart beat. I lost it when I heard it. It made it all so real!

8 Fears

8. Afraid of basements
7. Terrified of getting in another accident
6. Afraid of losing a family member
5. Terrified of something happening to Mike
4. Scared for this baby growing inside me
3. Afraid there won't be enough money
2. Afraid to lose Boomer
1. Afraid of being not good enough